An Old Friend Of Jon’s (Not Kate’s) Speaks Up!

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1. On May 28, 2009, Brenda said:

   I have to say it was refreshing to hear from someone outside the network of publicity to defend an old friend who knew him “from way back when”. That is the real story and that’s who these people really are, not what is in the 60 minutes of handpicked film they air once a week for ratings. I can say, I do not watch the show, buy the books or even spend much time following their story. I do know I feel bad for a family that is overwhelmed and are not getting the support they need off camera.
   I too, am the 3rd from a family of 12 and my parents had a lot of rough times, my father was a mechanic and my mother didn’t work. However, there were 9 girls in our family and, naturally were thin, cute, and very tall! I myself am 6′1″. Throughout our school years we were constantly being offered opportunities for modeling, runways, magazines etc. I used to hear this and see $ signs! My parents however, though it could have made their life a lot easier, even now struggling to put my younger siblings through college, knew that throwing their family into something based on attention, spot-light, money, glamour and everything that comes with the package, are not what make you successful or even happy. My parents have not had the perfect marriage, stress was always high, they fought like most married couples do and had that been caught on tape, they probably wouldn’t be married today. I am happy to say that they are after 32 years, raised 12 kids and just had their 23rd grandchild with one on the way! Not one of us went into modeling or became famous, we were the favored players on every sports team we were a part of but we played for fun, never for money.
   I only hope for Jon and Kate, the focus can turn back to what made them an interesting family to begin with, their love for each other and the opportunity of a life time to raise 8 small children and survive it. I will not comment on Kate, I do not know her, though I do know the effects that an insurmountable amount of stress can do to a mother. I am a mother myself and after events of the last several years, I am not the same woman my husband married, I have really bad days and I am not nearly as fun or as nice as I used to be. I can’t imagine having to do it with the whole world judging me (I am just judged by those local and it isn’t nice)
   If my opinion mattered to anyone, I would actually petition for the show to be postponed for a year and, you may not agree with this, but still pay the family! Give them a year to really work on their relationship with each other and their children. It’s not about the money but it always impacts any decision making and it usually never helps. After a year they can evaluate what is important to them and really see if it is worth putting themselves through this nightmare. I feel for the children, they are the most important thing in this equation.
   The network has made plenty of money from this family,(I am not saying that the network has done anything wrong) and I think it is the least they can do to help heal a family that they have been closely involved in the process of it’s
   dissolve.

2. On May 28, 2009, Stacy said:

   Thank you for sharing. As so many of us Reading locals have said . . . she is one greedy mama.

3. On May 28, 2009, Leanne said:

   Well said, Brenda. Well said.

4. On May 29, 2009, Jedi said:

   You, the author, admitted that you all sat around dreaming of ways to be rich and famous. I guess Jon found his. If Jon really didn’t want to do the show, he wouldn’t. He had to sign a contract and if he didn’t want those children on the show, he could have stopped it. Be careful when you sell your soul to the devil. He will come to collect.

5. On May 29, 2009, jen said:

   jon is not a victim here. those children are. jon is there to make money at the expense of his children’s well being. he could, like every parent support his children that HE earned, not the kids. those poor darlings always look confused. what will happen when they go to school and realize other families aren’t like this, other kids don’t have cameras in their faces and their classmates will know every little detail of their lives. no privacy. don’t blame kate only. jon is to blame as well. he is greedy as well. just because she is more vocal and controlling doesn’t make him less guilty. they are equally to blame. they should have stopped after the first year. they would have had the money and those kids would not have been aware that they were living in a zoo like caged animals. shame on kate, shame on jon, shame of tlc, shame on discovery. discovery and tlc were my favorite channels, hands down. not anymore. i am boycotting them until all of these exploitive shows are off they air. every single on which have children in them intrusively and abusively alter their existence by taking away their privacy. where are these minors advocates. why is this government allowing parents with poor judgement to emotionally and psychologicaaly abuse their children for the sake of money and greed. stop watching. don’t be a part of this. it showcases the worst traits of human beings all wrapped up and tied in bow. it’s a facade. don’t buy it. boycott it. let those children live a normal life. make them stop. we will all have blood on our hands by participating in this scandal!

6. On May 29, 2009, Mich said:

   Brenda — Well said! I couldn’t have said it any better. I do hope they will seek some counsel and get their lives back together again.

7. On May 29, 2009, reith said:

   Everybody is always an expert about other people’s lives. Do you think that the Roloff family of Little People, Big World did all that they did on their own? They travelled, etc. and all on TLC’s dime. It could be said that they exploited their “little people” status just as much as Jon & Kate are accused of exploiting their kids. Funny how no one ever said anything about these things until trouble abounded in Jon & Kate’s life??? About Jodi & Kevin – sour grapes you two. No money – trash your sister, is that how it works? You both should be ashamed of yourselves. Leave J&K alone and maybe then they can sit down at try to work things out on their own. God, what a bunch of voyeuristic jerks everyone is being. Not happy until you completely ruin someones lives.

8. On May 30, 2009, reith said:

   I hope that things work out for the two of them. Having said that, unless these rag magazines leave well enough alone, the may not be possible. These naysayers should be ashamed of themselves saying the things they are about J&K. All was fine and good until their marriage started to reel and by in large, Jon can take full responsibility for that fiasco. Possibly you should use one head at a time Jon and think about your kids before you go out to bars and try to be 20 again. Kate may come off as being harsh, but did anyone ever hear of “editing”? These snits that she goes through could be once in awhile but the way things are edited it could make it look like it happens every hour on the hour. Everyone is always so exited to see others fail and revel in their misery. Shame, shame, shame. What if it was you – how would you feel?

9. On May 30, 2009, Florida Sun said:

   It was just a matter of time. Jon finally woke up from Kate’s abuse. Kate started to get a little taste of freedom.
   While she ONCE was a mom who lived for her kids, those days are gone. That’s what GREED does to people. The 6 little ones still have time to end up normal
   (if they pull the plug now). Maddie and Cara are a different story.

   Kate has always brushed off Maddies’s emotional issues. She better address that and seek help or the next Gossilin we will be seeing in the news will be Maddie.

   Everything they get, comes from people giving it to them, as long as they will advertise it. Wake up people, that’s a TV Contract. She won’t hesitate to start a fight
   with him when they are in public any less than juat when the
   cameras are there. She’s also seen emotionally berate her Jon in a store, even yelling ‘Get over here now’. That doesn’t sound like a strong woman, sounds like a b***h.
   I could go on and on about the verbal abuse she dishes out.

   They have an open marriage at this stage of the game and Kate is just mad because Jon was caught on tape. He also needs a body guard. Some beautiful tall model type that
   carry’s her .45 holstered on her hip. Sexy!!!!

   Apparently the burgundy color didn’t suit the mother of eight because she traded it in for one that better suited her color preferences.

   Others tell the story of the day Jon’s father was buried. Kate forbid him from spending time with his brothers after the service.
   Yep….soungs like a controling b***h to me.

   Has it ever occured to anyone that aunt J and uncle K are truly concerned about the kids. Boy that would be a thought. They seem to be happy and well enough off that they
   don’t care about the $$$$. It’s been noted that Kate wanted
   them cut from shows because she did not want J&K to be cut in on the $$$$ when TLC approaced them. Kate is looking more and more unattractive here.

   Some of you here need to do your homework and know all the facts that go waaaaaayy back with her family over the past 5 years. She is a
   CONTROL FREAK and it will ruin the family. SHe’s already ruined her relationship with her dad, people that helped when the babies were born and now extended to J&K.

   She want’s all the fame herself and her kids will suffer.
   I hope she gets Maddie help befor something sad happens.

   What does this quote say about Kate?
   “Jon said their goal is to be legally separated by July 15 because Kate wants to move on quickly,” “Jon is going to push for half of their money, but Kate is determine
   to hang on to as much as she can – and they’re worth more than you think.”

   BTW…..You can fimd Kate’s books in the Christen portion of the book stores. What a f****n joke!!

10. On May 30, 2009, Florida Sun said:

    BTW….I see this is a financial web site. I need a job, in IT? Any leads would be great.

11. On May 31, 2009, Abby said:

    I just started watching this show to see what all the hype was…So far it is just a day-in-the-life of any average person…no surprises but i like the charm that Jon and Kate bring to it…there isnt any big drama that isnt expected in any daily household so i think it might bore me after a few more episodes..but whatever its cute to watch them.

12. On May 31, 2009, Barb said:

    You Know, we could all sit here and write these posts, that are really no different that the trash we read in the magazines. We can all blame the overpowering, controlling, mean spirited Kate – but let’s be real about Jon. He’s gotten alot from this show as well: hair implants, teeth whitening, enough money he didn’t have to “work” anymore and look what he’s driving now! Not to mention that he’s leaving Kate with the kids while he’s out socializing in bars. Have we seen Kate doing that? What I see, is that Jon is pretty much decided that he no longer wants to be a part of a large family; he’ll do it for the “benefit of his kids” but in reality he only wants the money. Yeah, Kate is off promoting her books; but how many times have we heard Jon say “her book” and she says “OUR book”. Jon wants the money and Kate wants the fame – so to me they are BOTH quilty of their own interests here – too bad for the kids; one day when they watch the reruns of the show (which they do all the time) they won’t see daddy…. Of course Kate is controlling; she has to be – I’d like to see anyone try to organize a family that large – it’s pretty much like having a school room full of children 24/7. I don’t pity fun loving Jon – he made his choices; he knew what being in the public eye was going to be like. I really think it’s time for him to grow up, accept his large family as a reality and get down to the business of being a dad so that his young children won’t have to ask for him not to leave them anymore. That is what’s going to scare those kids; daddy was always there and now he’s gone. Now that’s sad. Grow up Jon – you may have been a player back in the day, but you are not so hot now. Be a dad, make your marriage work – you, yourself said you were in it for your kids – well make them proud. Work on keeping your family together – no matter what it takes. Kate, ease up. So what if the house isn’t perfect, or the kids are dressed perfectly. Have a date night each week with your husband – both of you make your relationship a priority and the happiness of your children will follow. I for one am sick of reading about you two. So much so, that I won’t watch your show any longer. So what was 10 million viewers, is probably going to slow down. Who wants to watch you break the hearts of your kids for the sake of money.

13. On Jun 1, 2009, Lin said:

    I think the Jon and Kate show is going Hollywood.Fancy wheels,spa trips,house,etc.The average viewer cannot relate any longer.It used to be cute and one could relate,know it is like watching the life of the rich and famous!I really have lost interest,Kate is a snob and neurotic,Jon is going along for the money! Too Bad! Many of my friends agree and do not tune in any longer.

14. On Jun 3, 2009, Helene said:

    I used to be an avid fan of Jon and Kate Plus 8, and watch every episode.

    When all this mess began to surface, at first I was shocked….(wasn’t everyone?), then I certainly believed that it would all be worked out between the two of them…or a least, hoped and prayed it would be so. I could not believe that this famly who wanted us to know(?) that they were a CHRISTian family; but a Christian family’s withness would not be doing this. Then I began to wonder if all this was a publicity stunt for the purpose of increasing watcher ratings. Either way, I as so thoroughly was sickened by either possibility I planned to cease watching.

    Apparently I, along with other people, feel that Kate verbally, spiritually, physically, and emotionaly abused and emasculated Jon. I have no idea how his long-suffering attitude put up with her shenanigans. I am not, in any way excusing, what he did..But, I can also not excuse her treatment of him.

    I must admit to frequently being concerned that the whole family, especially the children, could live with cameras in their faces 24/7. Every action and every word being shown on national TV. They, the children, have NOT had a normal childhood and now they are caught in this media blitz/circus; now they are subjcted to watching the parents they love ripping each other to shreds and the whole tragedy being televised for the whole world to see; not even this being kept within the confines and safety of the family home.

    When Jon and Kate lived in the home in Wyomissing, they were a much closer family…WHat happened to them??

15. On Jun 4, 2009, Debbie said:

    Kate is a mentally ill individual. She has severe OCD, and I fear boarderline personality disorder. I was raised by my mother who had these problems. I can spot them a mile away. Believe me when I say, a child comes out of that enviroment damaged. Jon need to get her help, and protect the kids. I can’t watch anymore, it affects me too much, reminds me too much, hurts too much

16. On Jun 5, 2009, Patricia said:

    According to everything I have read Kate was in this for the money even before the little ones were born. The way she acts the show should be renamed The wonderful Kate show. She was a nurse but after the twins were born she apparently only worked every other Saturday. Since the beginning of the show she has become more venomous by the show. According to what I read it was Kate’s idea for Jon to quit his job so he could be home more and she could go on more speaking engagements and book signings. If that’s how it came down it looks like she doesn’t want to be around all of the children too often. Maddie is already starting to talk and act like her mom. TLC hopes to keep their ratings up for two more years! They can forget that unless Kate takes a look at reality. As far as reality shows involving families goes I used to somewhat enjoy Jon and Kate. Now I just wish Jon could have his children and be a family with them. Kate over reacts to everything that happens to the little ones while she is gone but when she is there she is too busy being “Cute”,”funny”, “personable”, and “interesting”, to notice anything that is happening to the children. Money wise the family lifestyle has improved by leaps and bounds since the show started. I wonder how much of those millions have been put into the bank for the eight little ones education, health, and future. Kate thinks she is so great. If she wants to see what a real mother is and does she should start watching Michelle on the Duggars.

17. On Jun 6, 2009, bob said:

    Check out the Gosselins without pity blog for the real scoop on Khate.

18. On Jun 8, 2009, Tami said:

    Number 1- TLC is an explotive channel as of late. Do you see a regular show on there? As for J&K, there is MAJOR editing to make Kate look like a screaming banshee & to make poor little Jon look like a put upon spouse. Boo hoo. You helped make all those kids, so step up & get over your too early mid-life crisis, and do your part. Lord knows you both have enough money to last you and all yours for the rest of ALL your lives. Get over yourselves.

19. On Jun 8, 2009, MMags1 said:

    Just watch the show people….. Kate’s obvious disgust toward her children and Jon is almost palpable. She yells, rolls her eyes and ignores them whenever they come near her.

    Over the course of 4+ seasons, Kate has gone from an average looking, justifiably stressed out mom of 8, to a tummy tucked, orange tanned, harpie of a media wh*re, who wouldn’t cancel her book tour even when a scandal of mammoth proportions, shook her family to their very core. “Everything I do, I do for my kids”??? If that’s the truth, then all I can say is God help the kids!

    Just how those of you who keep saying that Kate loves her family, can believe the words coming out on the screen in front of you, is beyond me. Do you actually have eyes and ears? Have you really watched the show?

    It doesn’t matter what the tabloids are printing, or the entertainment news is showing. It’s all right there to see, every Monday night. Wake up sheeple!

20. On Jun 11, 2009, So Cal Mom said:

    This split was a long time coming. I haven’t been able to watch the Kate show since the tups turned 3. The nasty little jabs tossed around by both parents and then commented on by the producer when they had couch time, just to watch the reaction. It was more venomous than I could stand even way back then.

    It brought back memories of my ex husband, who could’ve written the book that Jon lives his life by. Can’t keep a job, doesn’t like the film crew under his feet but he sure had a good time skiing on TLC’s dime.

    Men like Jon don’t realize they can’t have it both ways. They want a nice house, they want to feed their kids (I’m assuming the kids eating is important to him) They want a nice car, clothes, vacations. But when it comes time to hold a job to pay for those things, not so much.

    Grow up Jon, you’ve got 8 kids counting on you and a wife with a mental disorder. Make Kate get some help for her OCD, if she won’t get you’re kids away from her. You’re a grown man and you seem not able to deal any more, what do you think it’s like for your kids?
    Think about that, Jon…….

21. On Jun 11, 2009, PamelaJaye said:

    I read Kate’s book – as someone suggested, there are such things, still, as libraries. I was 35th in line, but the line went quick.

    There is no way that woman wrote that book. She in no way portrayed the view of life of the author. I can only wonder what Beth is doing these days. But I do hope she got some money out of it, cause reading it – it’s clear she did all the work.

    thanks for the backstory

22. On Jun 12, 2009, CallieME said:

    Hey, Kate (Reith),

    Your kids are going to be so messed up. Be a woman and protect them. You and Jon are pathetic allowing this to happen to them.

    Yeah, all reality shows are explotation in the making, but there are 8 little kids involved here. Much different!

23. On Jun 14, 2009, Teri said:

    Well said ” CallieMe “, thank you for your comments. I feel sorry for the kids, she will realize someday (I hope so) when one or two of her kids mess up their lives because of her too much exploitation and greediness of money and fame. Someday….. I believe in karma. God bless to both of them and their kids!

24. On Jun 14, 2009, KattyBlackyard said:

    Hi, very nice post. I have been wonder’n bout this issue,so thanks for posting

25. On Jun 15, 2009, Sue said:

    http://www.hutchnews.com/Localregional/sextup

    Read this on a real group of sextups

26. On Jun 18, 2009, Eddie said:

    Thanks for your inside perspective. It confirms what I’ve been reading around the web that Kate is a major beeatch.

27. On Jun 19, 2009, walt wilson said:

    irs, should investigate j & k from day 1
    since they got free stuff furniture, electric bills, stuff for sixers, then, 2nd house they did the same thing, and now 3rd house it gets even worse…….
    dish washer -2, furniture for entire house, refrig, washer, driers, and everything else should be reported on a 1099 form period …………

28. On Jun 19, 2009, BrendaB said:

    I think a lot of things appear differently when being watched on t.v. compared to how they appear in reality. On t.v. Kate may appear bossy and controlling, with Jon being the “whipping boy” as someone said, but we’re watching this while relaxing on the couch. I think if a camera was rolling in any of our homes we may come across as less than desirable ourselves. My guess is that in most well ran homes someone is the one “ordering” things to be put here or there, and someone taking orders. I’m not an avid viewer of the show, but I’ve seen enough to understand what some people say, not that I agree with the simplification of their statements. My advice would be to let J&K +8 have some private family time. Take a year off like someone suggested, counseling, divorce, whatever, but, privately. In the meantime, the rest of us can focus on our own lives like we should be.

29. On Jun 22, 2009, Debbie said:

    It didn’t take this wall of reference to have me understand that Jon is a good soul. He’s just a simple guy who married a complicated lady. From the old tapes of them that were aired on the show before the marriage, I can see her manipulating ways. She comes across as being fun and all about Jon. Lots of affection and that kiss on their wedding day was something else! Where did she go or did she ever exist anyway..

30. On Jun 23, 2009, k said:

    i am waiting for mtv cribs to do an episode at the house.. i cannot relate to them anymore, nor can the general public. they used to save money for a bedroom set or clothes, now they jaunt off to spa holidays. the overindulging will hurt the children the most in the longrun!

31. On Jun 23, 2009, Erica said:

    Crystal Ball Episodes to go

    40 Kate puts up stripper pole in living room
    39 Steve the bodyguard moves in with Kate
    38 The 8 vote who is the best disney land parent
    37 Maddy and Leigh caught selling moms cocaine at school, classmate commits suicide
    36 Kate sues to keep Jon from receiving tv contract money
    35 Jon sues Kate for custody of kids
    34 Twins run away from home
    33 Kate introduces perfume line
    32 State of PA takes custody of kids for child abuse and labor laws
    31 Kate is pregnant again with triplets
    30 Jon runs for US senator
    29 Kate takes dogs hostages over losing custody of kids
    28 Kids do field trip to white house
    27 Kids burn down the big house playing with matches
    26 Jon injured in car accident
    25 American Chopper puts kids to work building $150,000 bikes
    24 Kids sue both parents for estate and past tv show earnings
    23 Kate gets guard job in mens state prison delivers her new twins
    22 Bodygaurd Steve proposes to Kate
    21 Jon takes Russian mail order bride
    20 Kids start singing jackson 5 songs
    19 IRS hits Jon and Kate for back taxes on received gifts and services
    18 Kids hire lawyer and divorce both parents
    17 Family goes on Oprah show
    16 Kids put mom on $5 weekly allowance
    15 Kids buy bigger house
    14 Kids go on trip to north pole to see santa
    13 TLC put show on twice a week
    12 Kids watch parents fight then do ending interview. All say they are doing it for their parents
    11 Kids interview new nanny’s and home school teahcers
    10 Kids start selling their clothes to fans. Kids start clothing line.
    9 Kids call police because parents are fighting
    8 Neighbors report kids are out playing in the yard at 4am in the morning
    7 Kids start blog for their fans
    6 TLC signs new contract for another 100 shows with the kids no parents
    5 Kids ghost write book on how to survive divorce
    4 Jon wins election to replace Spector as Senator
    3 Kate replace Katie Curtic as head of news
    2 Kids put new pool in the back yard
    1 Kids adopt new foster parents

32. On Jun 23, 2009, Mochinga said:

    Drop the show, all it does is exploit those poor little kids. I say TLC is just as exploitive as Kate is. Jon is not without guilt either. Drop the stupid show and move on with life!!!

33. On Jun 23, 2009, L. G. Walters said:

    It’s too bad Jon wasn’t man enough to stand up to Kate, BEFORE he produced 6 more children. Now, he wants to run around and be “free.” Sorry, you have 8 children to support. Plus, Jon looks and sounds so dumb. I don’t feel one bit sorry for Jon. I feel sorry for the children. Next time, maybe he’ll choose more wisely.

34. On Jun 25, 2009, Maria said:

    Give me a break, poor little JON new what he was doing when he signed away his right to privacy, almost 5 years ago with TLC. He wanted money and fame. Let’s get real, Jon while working at his normal job, stated several times that he did not have enough time to spend with the kids, and wanted to be at home, so he quit his job, or got fired, whatever the case, Jon is a grown man and if he acted like he had a brain he would not need Kate nagging at him, to do things right. Maybe he should get off the POT (brain cell burning drug) refocus his attention on what matters, and stop being so damn selfish. He got caught cheating and now he wants privacy. I hope the media hounds he butt for the rest of his life so that his children know what a real piece of crap he really is!!!!

35. On Jun 25, 2009, dede said:

    I’ve watched the show a couple of times and kate is a b***ch. I’m a woman and I think he should have left a long time ago. I could see it his eyes when she talk to him that she made him feel like less then a man. I couldn’t believe he actually let her speak to him in that manner. I have twins and three single children and I don’t act like that. Leave pay child support offer them something kate will never understand. Find someone to love you and cherish your children. Nobody understands what kind of pressure you’re under. And we probaly never will. Run Jon Run Fast. I will pray for you. Good luck. And F*ck what the general public thinks of you the only thing that matter is the kids. However you choose to take care of them is your business. America is so spoiled so when they try to past judgement on other people is so amazing. Also there are more important things to worry a dumb war we are fighting on two fronts, millions of people uninsured, coporation taking advantage of the American people, or the Chinese leaving us in the dust. Grow the F*ck up America. Find more important things to worry about. Because I think soldiers dying everyday should be at the top of all our list.

36. On Jun 25, 2009, Kathy said:

    PLEASE….Jon married Kate and as far as I can see he is a whoose! Anyone that I have talked to thinks he’s a skank that cheats on his wife and children. I do not believe for a minute that he loves those kids like Kate does.

37. On Jun 25, 2009, brother frankie said:

    maria, are you sure you are not kates twin?

    you sound just like her.

    I am praying for you.

38. On Jun 25, 2009, k said:

    I am praying for everyone who takes this so seriously.
    i think the best thing to do is to boycott watching the show. then maybe everyone can get the peace they want. dont worry, we will get to see the kids again in the future on the surreal life or celebrity rehab. there will always be reality shows waiting to exploit people for money so long as there are cabbage heads like us watching it…

39. On Jun 25, 2009, Kathy said:

    Excuse me, but Jon is spending his share as well. Get Real! He’s a cheater! Get divorced first and maybe GET A JOB!!!!!

40. On Jun 26, 2009, Frank said:

    I appreciate the author, Pete, giving his insite obn the story. He had known the pre-TLC Jon before anyone, so thank you for sharing. I do think that both Jon and Kate should have taken into concideration what was ahead of them, but then again, when 6 additional children are dropped into your lap, who knows how any of use would react?
    The are a couple of things I would like to point out, that some people seem to miss.
    1) Jon was happy with his twin girls, and didn’t wan to have another baby. It was Kate who insisted on it.
    2) Jon did not want to have the hair plugs done. It was Kate who insisted.
    3) Jon was not the one who was screaming in the middle of Toys-R-Us. It was Kate
    4) When the kids are with Jon, they are mmuch more relaxed, calm, and less stressed. With Kate, everything turned into a nightmare!!

    I really wish people would stop taking sides according to gender, and take Kates side, simply for the fact that she had given birth.

    One last point… Kate always said that she never had time to do anything, yet, she had always said it sitting down in a chair doing nothing!!!

41. On Jun 26, 2009, DW said:

    Pul-leaze. Jon is responsible for Jon’s behavior and Kate is responsible for hers. That’s how being a GROWN UP works. And they are both EQUALLY responsible for the health & welfare of their kids. That’s how parenting works.

    You lot are the Dr. Phil of the reality set. How perfect are each of you?

42. On Jun 26, 2009, Whatever said:

    Hmm. So Jon was lazing around after high school, talking about wanting a big family and getting rich quick – but it’s Kate who led him astray and it’s all her fault? Ahem.

    She’s controlling, sarcastic, and cutting. He’s lazy and passive-aggressive. They picked each other; they’re both to blame for the marriage ending. But seriously, a decent person doesn’t just give up and start cheating. You have the decency to end the marriage first.

    Jon wanted all the benefits of the money – but none of the work. Now he wants to go be a kid again. Sorry, buddy, but the last ten years of your life happened. You have to face the consequences of your choices.

    I should have known GWoP would find this right away. Just check out the misogyny in some of the responses. I’m really sure Christ approves of the man who has an affair to punish his wife for “emasculating” him. Not to sound like Judge Judy, but HE PICKED HER. You think he wasn’t a wimp before?

43. On Jun 26, 2009, pamelajaye said:

    Kids hire lawyer and divorce both parents
    Kids put mom on $5 weekly allowance

    loved these two

44. On Jun 26, 2009, Sonia said:

    Everyone wants to blame Kate for everything wrong with their marriage. If you ever watched the show you could tell that even though she does get crazy at times she really loved Jon. Did anyone notice the way she would look at him? Like the sun rose & set on him. She would bark orders at him and be critical but she always made it clear that she was appreciative.

45. On Jun 26, 2009, Elizabeth said:

    To MMags1

    I completely agree with our comment. People watch the show and say that they “LOVE” Kate – and I wonder if my television has entered the Twilight Zone and I’m seeing another show altogether. Kate’s resentment of Jon, and sadly her children, has crescendoed to a screeching pitch over the past couple years. And the word “palpable” is perfect to describe Jon and Kate’s intense dislike of one another starting way back. Scared looks on the kids’ faces. Crying. Sadness. Yet those Gosselin fans just LOVE Kate. It is downright scary because it means they think it’s okay to treat their own kids the same way.

    The Gosselin children need to be protected from both of their parents but Jon at least seems to have some kind of connection with his kids. Jon could possibly be rehabilitated.

46. On Jun 28, 2009, Heididoesnotwatch8 said:

    Wow..very cool of you to come out with this! I’ve always felt for that poor man. I never knew what made him stay. I don’t know what made him leave exactly either. I’ve never watched the show and do not intend too. It’s a lot of exploitation in my opinion. The parents exploited their family. Kate especially exploits her family. (Especially the older ones in the Tabloids..she’s constantly dragging one of them by the hand and they constantly look tired, cranky and unhappy). I don’t like what I am seeing. When they have to be investigated to see whether the kids are being exploited, its time to drop the show. Can TLC really afford what will happen if the ACLU, or child services decides to say “enough”? Thanks for the perspective on this…I think Jon has gotten a bum rap for being a “wimp”. I have a husband that doesn’t say much either, but he listens..and I know Jon was too, or he never would have seen what Kate has become..she really has become a “worst nightmare” mom in my opinion ..and I’ve only seen her in photos and read about her. I’ve never watched the show!

47. On Jun 28, 2009, Heididoesnotwatch8 said:

    To Kathy: He’s not the only one that cheated. I believe there is a bodyguard rumor…and it wasn’t about Jon! Really. Youobviously only read stories that say “KATE” in the heading..I have seen more pictures of her shaking her finger, or frowning at her kids than I have of her smiling or looking like she adores them. She looks hungry for money…and well when you have 9 kids to feed thats a necessity. I imagine it would have been a necessity without the litter she had. Fact is, we all have to make a living to support our families. The difference between her and Jon is, he doesn’t want to make that money on his kids’ backs…seems fair to me since parents are supposed to raise their kids, not kids raise and support their parents. Kate needs to grow up. She needs to remember that without Jon, without the show, without the lights etc she is just another Single Mommy now, and she had better get a skill so she can make it on her own when the flash bulbs stop flashing!

48. On Jun 28, 2009, Kathy said:

    I think that the media makes out that Kate is the Bitch. She is strong because she has had to be. If she did not have the control and order, what a mess the home would be. It continues to amaze me that there is so much hostility towards Kate when she has bee the major breadwinner in the family and continues to be. As far as I have heard, she isn’t as bad as she is painted to be in the media. How can you CHEAT and play that as an OK act when you have eight children?
    Sorry……but cheating is cheating and Kate and the children deserve much better for their lives.
    God Bless you Kate, I

49. On Jun 29, 2009, MMags1 said:

    Sorry…. But I am really getting tired of the people who seem to believe that Kate is some kind of saint, just because she gave birth to 8 children. Any decent parent should be able to see how blatantly Kate sees nothing wrong with making her fortune off the backs of her poor innocent kids. Every time she has commented on the future of the show, she insists that “she” will never give up, “she” will not be taken down over the public scrutiny, “she” has no intentions of ever giving up the show, etc. You get my point. (I hope??)

    Kate has openly admitted (several times) in front of the camera and in magazine interviews, that Jon has wanted “out” of the show for at least the past 2 seasons. Yet, people keep saying that Jon is the one exploiting his kids! Puh-leeze, people!!!! And the most ridiculous statement she has made to date, is when she said on the second to last episode (I think) that she doesn’t understand why Jon won’t talk to her and tell her why he is so upset! HELLO…. Earth to Kate!

    According to the most recent statements from TLC the show is going on “hiatus”. Sounds like TLC &(Figure8 productions) have finally heard the outcry from the formerly devoted viewers, who can’t bear even one more minute of seeing Kate only paying attention to her children when there is a photo op! Why doesn’t anyone applaud the fact that Jon is the one staying at home with them while Kate goes off to earn yet another speaking fee or bask in the glow of another book promo??? If you’ve watched this season, you’ll remember that Kate has now decided that the fans aren’t so “creepy” after all. And she has decided to be “nice” to them from now on.

    And has anyone noticed that Kate keeps lamenting that when she is (rarely)home, she has to do everything by herself? Do the nannies and the rest of the staff work solely for Jon? I don’t think so! The whole sordid mess needs to come to a screeching halt, and those babies need the love and undivided attention of BOTH of their parents. TLC….. PLEASE, for the sake of the kids, make this “hiatus” permanent!!!

50. On Jun 30, 2009, Hinky said:

    None of us truly knows what is going on in this family. It is unfair to judge these people when we don’t have all the facts…we know what we see on tv (which has been edited) and what we read in tabloids (which is rarely true). Yes, Kate can be bossy and mean sometimes. Who hasn’t snapped at their husband. And with the stress of having all those kids to worry about, you would be a little on edge sometimes too. Jon is not perfect. He cheated on her. There is no acceptable reason to cheat on your spouse. You end your marriage or get counseling to fix it. You do not cheat. This is not all about fame, greed, and money. Divorce does not ruin kids. And there are quit a few reality shows out there of families with kids who aren’t in tabloids or being accused of exploiting their children.

51. On Jun 30, 2009, MMags1 said:

    Hinky:

    While I agree that we can’t believe everything we see on a reality show, or read in a magazine or tabloid, there has not been one word uttered by Jon or Kate, stating that Jon cheated. While Kate doesn’t confirm or deny the “alleged” affair on the show, Jon has made several very clear statements, on air, with Kate present, that he did NOT cheat on Kate.

    Whether this means that the rumors of a “contract” allowing Jon to see whoever he chooses, as long as he shows up for taping, are true…. (which would mean that he did not see anyone “without Kate’s permission), OR…. whether he just didn’t have an affair at all, I can’t understand why so many people make the statement that he cheated, as if it were a documented fact.

    Statements from the “alleged” girlfriend’s brother can not be substantiated, nor can any pictures of Jon with other women be deemed absolute proof that he slept with any of them.

    It really bothers me that people seem to beleive that anything “bad” written about Kate is a lie, yet the horrible things being written about Jon are somehow the truth. Which is it???? You can’t have it both ways….

    If Kate’s only flaw was snapping at Jon and the kids once in a while, that would be one thing. But, when we see her being blatantly rude and obnoxious with the celebrity guests that appear on the show, I think it can be reasonably assumed that she is just a nasty person. The fact that she stayed out on her “book tour” when the sh*& hit the fan, is very telling. Contract or no contract, I’d be going straight home to my children! Yet, she constantly states that “everything she does, she does for her children.” Give me a break!

    In my opinion, a person is innocent until proven guilty, and since I’ve seen absolutely no proof that Jon cheated, I refuse to believe that he did. Kate however, shows her greed and her disgust and disdain of her husband and children on every episode. As the saying goes….. “If it walks like a duck……”

52. On Jun 30, 2009, mom of many said:

    Kate is getting exactly what she deserves. When they first met, Jon had a girlfriend but Kate didn’t care. Kate chased after him and broke them up. She was as narcissistic then as she is now. Run away as fast as you can Jon! Get your life back and leave this vile, bitter, soulless woman. Do everything you can to take the kids, too.

    Kate is a terrible wife and a heartless mother who is only out for personal gain. She is opportunistic and a liar and doesn’t have an honest emotion in her body. Every laugh, smile, sniffle, and tear is contrived. She is so self absorbed that she can’t see beyond herself and connect with anyone in an honest way. She manipulates everyone, and I feel sorry for the viewers who cannot see through her charade. She cries victim and plays the martyr when she is responsible for everything that has happened. If she had ever truly cared about her family she would have tried to salvage it when she saw the horrid way she treated her husband and children on t.v.

    Kate is a megalomaniac. She will NEVER stop anything that can amass more power, control, wealth, fame, and money for herself. Her children are only a vehicle.

53. On Jul 1, 2009, Anon said:

    It is two people. Two parents. They are individuals. Yes, Kate is a bitch and OCD. Jon is lazy and passive aggressive. Each is a response to the others weakness. At one point I am sure they loved each other deeply.

    I wholeheartedly believe that they started the show together with good itentions. Yes, I said together. Again, they are individuals. Jon could have objected as the father of his children to the show. Partially he may have done it to make his wife happy but Kate should not get all of the blame. As providers they both saw the benefits and reality of doing this show. What they didn’t predict is how much it would change them both. How can you? Honestly? Until you are put in that position.

    We all have pipe dreams. Some never wake up from them. Blinded by the ease of it all.

    The show makes cuts. You really think you are seeing the whole picture? Don’t be so naive.

    Think about it. In your daily life do you reveal everything to everyone around you. No you don’t. Your intimate life is your intimate life.

    How do you think they boost the shows ratings? By pinning the parents against each other. You take typical parent squables we all have and boost it to the next extreme to turn it into the Jerry Springer show to get viewers.

    The only victims are the children. They didn’t ask to be born. They didn’t ask to do this show.

    Who cares about who cheated on who or why. They are both wrong.

    People jump on sides based on their personal experiences not just what they are seeing on t.v. that’s the truth.

    We don’t know about their inner workings. Only what we have read in tabliods, what they choose to say to us and the glimpse into their daily lives on television.

    You want to help so bad. Boycott the show, stop picking sides because it doesn’t help those children at all.

54. On Jul 1, 2009, Kathy said:

    How do you know that? I belive she loves her babies! Did you see the article in US that showed Jon in Utah with his girlfriend? There are pictures and many of his friends that comment on his affair. Is that a loving father? I think not. Kate was with the kids. I’m an educator that has always put children first,I do not buy the fact that this woman is vile. Just my opinion!

55. On Jul 2, 2009, MMags1 said:

    First, to mom of many,

    You hit it right on the head about Kate never putting an end to anything that can amass more power, control, fame and money for herself. Those kids are truly only vehicles for her greed. Well said!

    Kathy,

    With all due respect, Kate actually admitted on the show that Jon is the one who is at home with the kids, the majority of the time. She rationalized it by saying that she “had to do her job”. My question to you would be: If your family was suddenly thrust into a scandal of paparazzi proportions and you were “away on business”, would you stay at your “business obligation” or would you go home to make sure that your children were safe and sound?

    I know, if it were me, I would say to he** with the job!, and go home to be with my kids. NO QUESTION. Not Kate! She remained on her “book tour” for 2 more weeks!

    And, if we’re going to cite pictures of Jon in Utah (or anywhere else) with his “alleged girlfriend” and other friends, then what about Kate being seen (by several tourists in Bald Head Island, NC)”nose to nose”, whispering and giggling with her so-called “bodyguard” Steve Nield? Oh, And while we’re on the subject of bodyguards, why has his agency allowed Mr. Nield to continue on with his assignment to the Gosselin family? Any reputable agency would have pulled their employee from an assignment at the FIRST sign of impropriety. What gives with that? Like I said, “If it walks like a duck…..”

56. On Jul 2, 2009, rog said:

    Turn the kids over to Aunt Jodi and Uncle Kevin.

57. On Jul 2, 2009, Whatever said:

    When will Kate the megalomaniac be launching her invasion of Russia?

    Seriously, people. Do you even think before you vomit out your histrionic nonsense?

    I know you love to think that women have man-trapping vaginas, but Jon is a grownup with free will. Kate is not the wicked witch who “enchanted” him. He chose her as much as she chose him.

58. On Jul 2, 2009, Kathy said:

    It’s ok if we disagree, but I do stand firm that Kate is making the living so Jon can have the quality of life that he is used to. Did you see the episode when Jon was supposed to be watching the boys when he was golfing? I held my breathe the whole time because he was not watching them and they were running up and down the steps at lightning speed. This is not thw whole souce of my living. I do wish the family well and hope that things work out in the best interast of the children. I don’t want to ARGUE, I just care as a single mom who has been cheated on. It’s not pretty for all concerned.
    Thank you for listening….no hate, just concern.
    Kathy

59. On Jul 6, 2009, Rick Garner said:

    What a difference a year makes. Just a year ago, Jon & Kate were enjoying family time at the beach with fireworks. After a year of media fireworks, what can you do for them today? http://tinyurl.com/q7vur5

60. On Jul 6, 2009, Kathy said:

    I really do feel sorry for the kids. How tragic! I was so glad to read that they spent the fourth of July together. My wish and prayer is that they will get back together with a kinder Kate and a more motivated Jon. Best Wishes to all of them.

61. On Jul 8, 2009, Fred said:

    Lots of interesting ideas and comments. i do think Kate wants to ride this gravy train as long as she can as it will take a LOT of cash to raise those kids. Emotionally, it takes mre than money though.

62. On Jul 8, 2009, Bree said:

    I used to watch the show every-now-and-then. I actually enjoyed how Kate would complete Jon’s sentences when he was short of words. She is articulate and would always put good words to pictures/videos during the couch session. I actually enjoyed little tuff’s that the two had during the show coz which could doesn’t fight.
    However, the show has lost its fizz now that they have separate couch sessions and the show is focused more on the parents now than the Kids.
    I personally think that whatever be the case, if Jon was upset or not “in love” with Kate anymore, he should have handled the situation like a man. Confornted her or gone to a counseler or worst, considered divorce before indulging in adultry. Well, no one has caught him on tape but just going in bars, hanging out with 20 something girls etc is enough to prove onez intentions.
    I think both J&K should take a break and concentrate on the innocent kids. The kids are adorable and need more love now than ever before.
    Comeon, Everyone makes mistakes. I think, the two should forgive each other and start afresh for the sake of the kids (camera or no camera)

63. On Jul 13, 2009, e conn said:

    Kate, let Jon go play. He really is an ass hole. Wants to be just Jon. See what he is doing. Playing. No work, no books, no speaking engagements, just playing with his girlfriends. He hasn’t done anything to insure the children’s future. He just wanted out. Too much for him. He has NO backbone.

64. On Jul 13, 2009, jen said:

    just like a man to cover for his cheating friend. Jon was the man of the house, he could have put his foot down and said no (and if Kate really really wanted to be greedy, then she could have walked out!) but he chose to be the looser and walk out on a wife and 8 kids. oh, back your cheating friends excuses up, that was an excuse trying to put the guilt on Kate. who whored around? Jon, your friend.

65. On Jul 13, 2009, Marilyn said:

    I’m pretty much done with both of them. The show, which I enjoyed because it showed a real family, though a huge one, but it turns out they have been living a lie for a very long time. TLC should be ashamed, right along with Jon & Kate.

66. On Jul 13, 2009, Bobo said:

    Narcissistic Personality Disorder people. Look it up. Mom of many has it all right. Kate is mentally fucked up and has used her lies and other black arts to connive Jon into marrying her, having more kids, conned the docs into the meds, and has conned the portion of the US with IQs hovering around 100.

    Why no grandparents on the show? Because they know how she really is and she probably didn’t want it to be revealed on national tv – anything that puts her in a bad light or makes her feel uneasy is eradicated…like Kevin and Jodi, the only sane people on that show with the kids best interests truly at heart.

    As for Jon, he is a whiny little bitch too. If it were me, I would lay low, get an apartment as close to the kids as possible and let the media see me dating, on the streets of Reading vs a yacht in France – what a tool!

    He is too stupid to realize that Kate will basically hang herself if given enough rope. Unfortunately it seems he’s practicing some noose-tying of his own. Water does seek it’s own level, after all.

67. On Jul 13, 2009, Kathy said:

    I don’t agree with you about Kate. I really do belive that she is trying. Too bad about her family. I haven`t always been perfect and shame on her brother for going on national tv to say the things he did. He should have gone to Kate

68. On Jul 14, 2009, momto3 said:

    Bottom line…Jon is such a douche bag!!!
    When I saw those pix of him in France yesterday I was totally nauseated. L-O-S-E-R!!!
    He deserves to OD at one of the Audigier coke parties.
    I feel so bad for his poor kids.
    Even my hubby agrees and he’s a total mans man (if you know what I mean).
    I guess he doesn’t even want shared custody????
    Narcissistic bastard.

69. On Jul 15, 2009, MMags1 said:

    Wow momto3…….

    Who pissed in your cheerios? That was one harsh statement, not to mention vile.

    If your husband is such a “man’s man”, how do you wrangle those pants away from him in the morning? Must be quite a fight.

    For anyone to say that another human being “deserves to OD” has got to be one of the most vicious things I’ve ever heard.

    Jon may not be mourning his marriage (which, by the way both J and K admitted had been over for a couple of years) and he may be jumping the gun by going public with his new life, but the mere fact that you could even think about writing something so vile, is just SICK!

    Please, go get the help that you so obviously need……….. If it’s not too late, that is.

70. On Jul 15, 2009, Patoote said:

    I want to know how much of this money is being set aside for the kids…and for family since this will eventually go down the drain. Both of them are spending on themselves…and are really being paid way too much…as our athletes and CEO’s. I can understand that Kate wants to go on…if she is really keeping the money for the kids…they already get free stuff and TLC gets their vacations that they probably do not have to pay for. Are they still attending church? you never hear about that any more. And how can she put out a cookbook when they have a cook? The book has been put on hold. SHe doesn’t have to do anything but be there for the kids’…oh, and do her personal appearences. I wonder if those have decreased this year. I also wonder if they have a mortgage or if they paid cash for the house. It was strange that they bought the house when their relationship was crap. Have you noticed that a lot of the photos of Kate have her looking crabby or yelling? Sorry, but I think I’ll have to watch something else from now on.

71. On Jul 15, 2009, Kathy said:

    Monto3, I do understand where you are coming from. First of all, this man is MARRIED and states that his children come first. Give me a break! Do you think the children are sheltered from all of this? I think not! They seemed to be pretty well adjusted, but not for long with Jon’s antics in the tabloids constantly with other women. Who in their right mind would want him? Without KATE’S earnings, he wouldn’t be in France.
    Lazy Lazy Lazy and Disgusting!

72. On Jul 16, 2009, Thomas W. Keith said:

    A divorce, especially with children involved, is always a tragedy. Online armchair psychologists always seem to want to chime in, but their analysis is that of the uninformed.

    As a side note, it’s amusing to see how many posters don’t bother to scan their posts for spelling/grammatical errors before submittal. Certainly everyone with an opinion isn’t so uneducated as to believe their use of grammer and lack of spelling skills is acceptable. Typos are acceptable only in rough drafts, not the final product.

73. On Jul 17, 2009, sara said:

    I’m sorry if Jon was too P&ssy to stand up to his wife, but that’s his problem. I guess it’s easier to stand up for yourself when you’re dating a child. He’s pathetic. I mean, this girl looks rode hard and put up wet! She’s def no Kate and she hasn’t even had her first kid yet. Apple doesn’t fall far. . . daddy gives out free tummy tucks and his daughter gives out free. . . you know. Can we say SKANK??? Also, do you know the calibur of girls who try to go on Bad Girls club?!~ Wake up people, she’s a loser who happens to have rich parents. GROSS!

74. On Jul 17, 2009, Julie said:

    If the problem was that Jon didn’t want to do the show anymore and Kate wouldn’t listen, then why is still doing the show since they announced the divorce? He’s a money and fame whore. He’s no better than she is…he’s actually worse. A little boy with 8 kids. In the end, when the kids are grown and see the shows about their parent’s split and read the Internet about his behavior, he’s going to be the one they blame…as it should be. Kate was willing to go to counseling at least.

75. On Jul 17, 2009, anonymous said:

    In a marriage, it takes TWO people to make it work. Whether it’s the good times, or the bad times where arguments persist and disagreements are frequent, it still takes TWO people to create such problems and to resolve them!

    I think it’s unfair to blame Kate for all the things that Jon has CHOSEN to do. He’s an adult, he can choose and make decisions for himself. It just looks like he decided to do the WRONG things.

    If it was about the children and about keeping the family intact, it would not be about what HE wants, but what’s best for the kids.

    It’s a shame that both Kate and Jon didn’t realize or come to grips that both marriage and parenthood involve teamwork, patience, and a deep love and commitment that goes far beyond feelings and wants, but more of a choice to love each other despite arguments, disagreements and stress!

76. On Jul 17, 2009, Kathy said:

    SKANK is a great description. By the way, when I am blogging, the last thing I worry about is correct spelling and grammar. I happen to have my PH. D. and am a successful professional. Excuse me, but blogging is relaxing and I’ll be darned if I am going to judge any spelling.

77. On Jul 18, 2009, dj2 said:

    If Jon is one of the best looking guys in Reading i feel sorry for any girls there

78. On Jul 18, 2009, sharon said:

    I think it is a crock of shit that everyone blames Kate. Somebody had to step up and be a parent to 8 kids. It’s sad that it ended this way. I do not think its over by any means. I live in there area. I think Jon will wise up especially when he has to pay child support. Right now he’s having a break. He will not marry the girl he is with. It’s sad that they chose to use the media and put out to much personal information. Their 15 minutes are up!!

79. On Jul 20, 2009, Kristen said:

    ahahaha, I bet you feel like an idiot now that Jon’s shown his true colors.

80. On Jul 20, 2009, lmb said:

    Jon is totally not innocent here. He is reaping the benefits by moving on to as many women as fame will bring his way. I found it interesting when he got back from France, he said he had to get back to “work.” Last I checked he gave up his job to watch the kids, so if by working he meant spending time with his children, we have a big problem here. I seriously doubt a true family man who always wanted to have such big family would take it for granted and find it to be “work,” to take care of his own children. I have ZERO sympathy for Jon because obviously Kate isnt the only one getting paid. How much was the condo in Manhattan again?

81. On Jul 20, 2009, Donna said:

    I find it interesting that people want to blame Kate, claiming that she’s greedy. Where is Jon in all of this? Spending as much of this money as he can to have his single life. This guy seems not to care what the media finds on him otherwise he would not be so out there. His hair plugs have rooted into his brain, because it sure is not working the it should be. I find it interesting that this early mid-life crisis came just after moving into their new home. I love their show, it has helped others on how to deal with multiples. But I feel that after Jon has shown his true self, they would be better to keep him off the show. What an example for children. And before anyone mentions again about Kate and the body guard!! If you would check back when Kate’s brother and sister in law had spoke, it was Jon who planted that seed to cover his actions with Deanna Hummel.

82. On Jul 20, 2009, Team Kate said:

    Jon’s a pitiable spoiled man-child who makes a habit of taking the easy way out. He was lucky Kate put up with him. She worked alot harder than he did, but no one has a problem with the money Jon’s squandering. Nor is anyone accusing Jon of exploiting their kids for a new clothing line – nope, it’s okay when Jon does it. Kate obviously couldn’t depend on Jon to provide for their eight children, so she did what she could to provide for them. More power to her. Unlike so many single moms whose husbands walk out on their families, now Kate and the kids won’t have to struggle in poverty while Dad whores himself around.

83. On Jul 22, 2009, sean said:

    People blame Jon for dating girls but, I still blame Kate for ruining the family. I used to be fan of J&K+8 and Kate’s word kept changing from season 1 to season 4. During season 1, she said that she is doing show mainly because she wanted to keep family memory, not money. During season 4, she said that they can’t go back and move only forward when Jon said that he did not want to do the show anymore. That’s when I knew fame and money got into her head.

    I think Jon is free man and leave him alone. Beside, TLC will most likely have Kate plus 8 minus Jon next season.

84. On Jul 22, 2009, MMags1 said:

    Come on people….. Kate drove everyone who ever gave a damn about that family away, a long time ago. Jon is not without fault in this, but I’m getting sick of Kate portraying herself as the victim. She is a controlling bi*^h and someday her children will walk away from her and never look back.

    Jon is moving forward and Kate can’t stand it, because she knows that after witnessing the vile way that she emasculated Jon for the past 4 years, no man in his right mind would ever be stupid enough to want any part of her.

    Contrary to what so many people seem to think, J and K both knew that this marriage was over almost 2 years ago. Kate even admitted it on camera. What’s sad is that now, she is insisting that she was blindsided by all of this. Sadder still, are the number of people who believe her. Has everyone lost their short-term memory??

    Jon is a good father and he loves his kids. All you have to do is see him interact with them and then watch Kate dismiss them every time they approach her, and you’ll clearly see who the better parent is.

    Is there any real question as to why he would be happy to be out from under Kate’s controlling and abusive thumb? Let the man be happy for once and stop blindly believing that Kate is a victim. She couldn’t be farther from it.

85. On Jul 23, 2009, Kassie said:

    Well personally until you have 8 children who can really judge? Every family has stress and I’m sure with eight kids running around it is probably alot more stressful. I like how everyone puts in how Kate is such a bitch! News flash Jon is no angel by any means. I find it really funny how Jon got caught with the other chick first, and then boom Kate was messing with the body guard??? Okay people really! I believe that this is all just a bunch of made up bull crap that is making them tons of money! I enjoyed the show however I really think that this is only going to hurt there children in the long run. I mean there parents are on every web page, magazine, channel, and radio stations!! Embarassing… I feel like Kate will be a perfect mother by herself every single mother struggles at times, but what mother doesn’t? My feelings are regardless of how unhappy you were in the marriage you should still obey your marriage commitments until the divorce is finalized. Kate keep sporting around your wedding ring until everything is over it will only help you recover in the end. I do not believe that both are innocent but by all means I really don’t believe that any of us are to judge there marriage or show until we have been in there shoes.

86. On Jul 23, 2009, sara said:

    One comment. . . . of recent. . . since news of the divorce. . .

    How many pictures of Kate do you see with young random men and how many do you see with her children. Jon’s a joke. Wake up people. Now, he’s in the Hamptons with that crackhead jacked up Star reporter who thinks she is also dating him. LOSER! GO KATE!

87. On Jul 24, 2009, jen said:

    I think Kate has really been misjudged. Also, I think she is a wondeful mother, she is so organized having 8!!!! You have to have organization and demand it to survive or there would be chaos! I have a friend that had 12 and she may have appeared *itchy, but in the end, all of her children grew up organized, knowing how to pitch in to help out, all went to college and a very loving family. And where is Jon? Is he home caring for 8 children taking on the responsibilities, No he is out having his good times and partying. I stand by Kate 200%! And who here can say they are perfect? No one.

88. On Jul 24, 2009, Kathy said:

    I’m with you Jen!

89. On Jul 24, 2009, MMags1 said:

    I guess if you call being a controlling, paranoid, germaphobe who constantly tells her male children that they’re “icky” and has the meltdown of the century because one of them gets gum or a grass stain on his clothes, organized…….. then that’s what Kate is. Puhleeze! Are you kidding me?

    All good mothers threaten to throw their child’s security blanket in the garbage because there is a dime-sized piece of gum stuck to it. And all good mothers bring their children to the Crayola factory and run around screaming “Noooo!” as she rips the markers from their happy little hands. Oh, and all good mothers berate their children’s father 24 hours a day, on camera, in front of them and the entire viewing audience, claiming “Don’t listen to daddy, He’s mean”.

    Are you ladies for real? Do you have fantasies of being Kate? Or better yet, ARE you Kate? I don’t know what show you’ve been watching, but it couldn’t be the same one that everyone else has seen. If it was, you’d know just exactly how demented Kate is and why Jon couldn’t wait to end the marriage.

    Before someone else writes, yet again, that Jon isn’t at home with the children….. there’s a reason for that. As long as Kate is home in Penn. Jon is not allowed at the house unless it is for filming purposes. Aparently Kate demanded that lovely stipulation.

    And by the way, Jon may not be divorced, but HE IS legally separated. And last I knew, from a legal standpoint, that means that Jon dating whoever he wants to, is NOT adultry.

    Do you really think it’s better to have children who grow up knowing how to clean the house properly, than to have children who grow up knowing their mother loved them unconditionally? If you have children of your own, I sure hope not.

90. On Jul 24, 2009, jen said:

    mags,
    no matter, Jon has abandoned his responsibilities as a father, as a husband, oh, believe me, he was looking for an excuse….he is not innocent whatsoever. and as I said before, are any of us perfect (pertaining to Kate). Do you think you could do better raising 8, how well would your home look, how tired would you be, how about maitaining a cheerful attitude 24/7? A real father, husband would definitly be understanding and show more patience. Believe me, those children will look at their Mom when they are older, and they will be thankful to her for not deserting them for a hot fling. They will still love their dad, but their Mom will be admired for her love.

91. On Jul 24, 2009, SarahB said:

    “And last I knew, from a legal standpoint, that means that Jon dating whoever he wants to, is NOT adultry.” [sic]

    You are quite mistaken. It is adultery.

92. On Jul 25, 2009, Michelle said:

    LOL… Jon is a douche bag. I’d like to see what kind of job he can find to pay child support for those 8 kids if he doesn’t do the show… Oh wait… maybe his 22-year-old druggy girlfiends father can loan him a couple of bucks… LOL from reading this article, I see Jon was always a douchy loser!

93. On Jul 26, 2009, Kassie said:

    I agree with Sarah and Jen. I would like to see those of you who are really bitching about Kate raising her children the way she does try and raise eight of your own. An Kate does love her children! Just because she may be alittle up tight doesn’t mean that she is a bad mother! Rest assure that if Jon would have been helping her out alittle more she may not of been so damn bitchy!! KATE WAS SMART BY SAYIN THAT JON CAN BE AT THERE HOME!!! Would you want some chick who has been in so much trouble with drugs and crap around your children? The answer is likely to be no! So stop be so freaking judge mental towards KATE.. JON IS A LOSER..

94. On Jul 27, 2009, Kathy said:

    To All of the folks that are in Jon’s corner:
    If it walks like a loser…acts like a loser…lies like a loser….!!!!!

95. On Jul 28, 2009, MMags1 said:

    If you look back at my previous comments, you’ll see that I never said that Jon was not to blame for any of this……… But, for some reason, that seems to be getting lost on certain people. What I am saying, is that Kate is not the wonderful, sainted, innocent victim that so many of you seem to think she is!

    ‘Nuff said! Oh, sorry SarahB, I meant to say “enough” said! Thanks for the spelling lesson.

96. On Jul 29, 2009, harveleah said:

    OK So, sometimes through the years of taping, Kate came across as bitchy. Did you ever stop to think that the one hour of tape that we saw was EDITED from many hours of taping? The producers had the ability to make those two people look good or look bad—depending upon how they snipped the tape.

    Since a boring family wouldn’t get great ratings….it was to TLC’s benefit to create them to fit a mold that would make people watch…and talk.

    In my opinion, and I have watched and loved this family since their very first show, one comment that Jon made during the infamous “special announcement” show in May explains it all.

    When Jon (sitting there with his newly pierced ears and spiky hairdo) said, in reference to the impending breakup—”It’s kind of exciting, too” — I suddenly realized that HE was probably to blame for the problems, and it didn’t matter what Kate said or did, he had decided to move on. It made me sick to my stomach.

97. On Jul 30, 2009, MMags1 said:

    Kate Gosselin has just purchased a condo in Rockville MD! Both Jon and Kate will reside at their respective condos when the other is at the Wernersville Pa house, where they share custody of their 8 children.

    Guess who lives in Rockville MD???

    Why surprise, surprise!!! It’s none other than former body guard, Steve Nield!

    Things that make you go “hmmmm” indeed!

98. On Jul 30, 2009, louisa said:

    It’s so sad that the parents aren’t thinking about the future of these children. When I was young and married with 2 children, I wanted to party. I left my husband and he raised them. Very well, I might add. Now that I’m getting so much older, I know I’ll end up right where the Gosselin parents will be. My kids won’t want anything to do with me, either. And I can’t blame them. We bring these things on ourselves

99. On Jul 30, 2009, Kassie said:

    Hmmm.. Wow she is getting smarter! Getting further away from some low life who can’t decide who he wants to f**k!! Kate isn’t making near the headlines that Jon is. GO KATE!!!

100. On Jul 31, 2009, jen said:

     I’m with you Kassie! And just to say, Kate is keeping her life more discreet. Will be her benefit, JOn wants the attention. Goooooooo Kate!!!!!!!!

101. On Jul 31, 2009, Amy said:

     Well, Kate isn’t making the “cheater report” as much as Jon because she and her “bodyguard” don’t have to even leave the house. Insiders report: He lives in the house with her and the “8″ now.

102. On Aug 2, 2009, Sherree said:

     Nice working trodding all over Kate. However, Jon has proven what HE’S really like. A nothing wanting to be something, using money made from innocent children. Now we all know why Kate had to boss him around…the “man” and I use that term loosely, has absolutely NO common sense.

103. On Aug 2, 2009, Kathy said:

     My husband wayched several episodes with me and we came to the same conclusions:
     Jon is all talk and has NO sincerity!
     Jon is not a victim!
     Kate is doing all of the WORK and is frustrated!
     The kids do not need all of his latest F__cks in their little lives!
     The show should end!
     We won’t watch it again with Jon involved. He’s a cheat, a loser, and a damned poor excuse as a parent!
     Kate needs love, understanding, and a lot of compassion. Please give it to her, if only for the kids sake.

104. On Aug 3, 2009, jen said:

     Yeah Sherree!!! You said it perfectly!

105. On Aug 3, 2009, NotAFanOfEither said:

     Please.. He now has an apartment in NY and he went to France.. WITHOUT A JOB!

     Kate is finally having to step up and spend more time with the kids – in recent pictures she hasn’t had her phone nearly as often.

     They both suck and they’re both money grubbers.

106. On Aug 3, 2009, Kassie said:

     Okay not a fan of either! Um so if you had eight kids and got offered to do a show don’t act like you wouldn’t take the opportunity. I don’t think the show had intentions to be just for money like you all think! An I don’t believe that Jon or Kate had intentions of it ending up like this. An personally I feel like Kate has been doing more than just the show to make money for her family. Im sure that is very expensive raising eight I know it is with two. Children are not cheap unless you are the kind of parents who don’t participate in there life and activities. My kids are young and I do a lot with them. An they participate in a lot of activities which cost money not including gas and whatever else they may need!! So the whole money thing is a little ridiculous. I don’t know one person who wouldn’t take the opportunity if it was to come across and there wasn’t ever any intentions of the show getting this out of hand. I will continue to watch the show just to see how Kate holds the grounds.

107. On Aug 4, 2009, Tracy said:

     Well,,, I do believe Jon was getting a very expensive apartment, plastic surgeries, fancy cars, extravagant vacations,Jon has no room to talk about greed or money issues, so,, blame Kate, however, this article is a “good ole boy” article. Because if he was so concerned about his children and or marriage, he would of been in counseling or in church, before deciding to be a party boy! No excuses for a thirty year old man, Sorry Jon. Is this the example you want your eight kids to have for a father? Party boy, multiple partners, run out when the going gets tough! Hmmmm!

108. On Aug 4, 2009, Kathy said:

     I agree with you Tracy. How incredible that he had to wait to have 8 kids before we saw that he was so irresponsible. I hope Kate finds happiness through all of this. She certainly wasn’t happy with Jon. Who would be? Other than a woman that wants money and ten minutes of fame.

109. On Aug 5, 2009, biada said:

     Kate is one greedy bltch. Why not end the sow already and focus on the kids? The 1st thing she said when the “break up” was announced was, “The Show Must Go On”. Wow. What a tool.

     Now TLC and the Tabloid are doing all they can to bash Jon and make him look like a tool.

     I don’t know how many penis Kate is sucking but she has her mouth full. Because the TLC crew are really giving Kate a lot of air time.

     This 2 new show was all about Kate. Her and her “I can do it” crap. She went on and on for 15 minutes.

     They didn’t even have time to show what Jon did with the kids.

110. On Aug 17, 2009, MMags1 said:

     What amazes me is how many people are making statements about Jon that they seem to be pulling out of their backsides.

     If some of you paid attention to the actual interviews that Jon (and Kate) are giving, you’d know that Jon IS in counseling. Kate refused.

     The only “procedure” Jon had was hair plugs, so I don’t know what “plastic surgery” you refer to. Kate had a tummy tuck and breast augmentation.

     Jon has a condo in NYC. Kate has a condo in Rockville Md. Both of them live “away” from the house when the other is there filming. This was mutually agreed to by Jon and Kate.

     Kathy…. you described Kate to a “T”. She IS the woman who wants money and ten minutes of fame.

     Seriously, where have you been getting your information? I seriously think that some people make their comments based solely on the comments of others and not based on fact. It only stands to reason that when a person continues to make the same erroneous comments, they haven’t taken the time to find out the truth.

     Jon has certainly made his mistakes since the separation, but Kate’s been the same nasty, greedy shrew all along.

     People really need to find out the facts before they comment on subjects they know nothing about.

111. On Aug 17, 2009, PamelaJaye said:

     “Jon has certainly made his mistakes since the separation, but Kate’s been the same nasty, greedy shrew all along.”

     Yup. I didn’t read the post you are replying to, but I think you’ve got it.

     From the very first eps of the show, I noticed that she was very annoying. Soon I realized it was the seated berating of her husband (one of the things that irked me).

     I often feel that whether these two were on TV or not, their marriage would eventually come to an end. I don’t think it’s the cameras – I think it’s Kate.

     Most men subjected to this crap throw in the towel eventually.

112. On Aug 17, 2009, jen said:

     bull hockey Mags! what world are you living in? And Kate was very brave to show on tv the extra skin hanging from being stretched carrying those precious 8. I think you are jealous…..I am glad she had the tummy tuck, I’m sure she did it for herself and her husband at the time. Go Kate! Love you girl and I admire you for being there for your children.

113. On Aug 18, 2009, MMags1 said:

     Jen….. Jealous of Kate Gosselin?? Are you kidding me?? I wouldn’t chose to be anything remotely like that woman! She was blessed with a husband who adored her (watch the footage of their early years)and they were yet again blessed with 8 beautiful, healthy children.

     Kate chose to destroy that family, all in the name of her 15 minutes of fame and the almighty dollar! She’s done nothing but berate and degrade her husband and use her precious babies as a meal ticket.

     I don’t care what she looks like in a bikini, or how many mani’s and pedi’s she gets a week. I have a loving, solid marriage and was blessed with two beautiful daughters, one still here with us and one who is now with the angels. I love and respect the amazing man who has been there with me, right by my side, every step of the way.

     Kate has turned a blind and greedy eye to the blessings she has been given. I wouldn’t trade places with her for any amount of money or fame or a million dollar estate.

     For Kate, it’s not about being there for her children. It’s only ever been about her children being there for her. Open your eyes, Jen!! Kate began developing her marketing strategies before those babies were even born!

     Jealous of Kate Gosselin??? NEVER! Sickened by her??? ABSOLUTELY!

114. On Aug 18, 2009, Kathy said:

     I totally disagree with you! Look at what he says and then look at his behavior. She got SICK of telling him what to do because he is child number 9. I won’t watch the show any longer when he is on it. Submissive women went out a long time ago, because we have to be strong when the man isn’t.

115. On Aug 18, 2009, jen said:

     Glad you have a strong husband, “an amazing man”, and sorry to hear about the loss of one of your daughters.
     But I still stand by Kate, I think Jon is a whimp, a looser, easily led to temptation. No matter, he married Kate and stood before God promising through good time or bad, in sickness and health, he chose to run into the arms of another woman when things got tough. Not my view of a loving husband, but a weak one. I agree with Kathy. Someone once told me, it’s easy to run from your responsibilities when things aren’t going their way, have their good times, he will get his pay back. JOn is WEAK WEAK WEAK, a whoosy of a man!!!!

116. On Aug 20, 2009, jen said:

     Latest news, Jon may not be able to be on the show anymore because he broke the “morals contr act” hanging out and being seen coming in and out of bars, trashy women. Also, he’s thinking about appearing on his own reality show about divorced dads.

     Just like a cheating man, looks to put the blame elsewhere….mostly on the wife. He’s got to do something to make himself look good, bash the wife to cover his dirty deeds.

117. On Aug 20, 2009, Kathy said:

     My heart breaks for Kate and the kids. How could he do this to them? Talk about a looser of a show waiting to be cancelled!!! No one gives a rip about Jon and his single-parenting! He doesn’t! Kate is the rock in the parenting and he is a LITTLE BOY trying to shirk his responsibilities. Kate, please do not settle the divorce with him staying in the home. You will REGRET it with his train of whores coming into YOUR children’s lives. Please go for supervised visitation until he grows up, if ever. Isn’t he the one who said he would be 53 with a 23 year old? He won’t stay with Hailey. He’s too much of a whore. Kate….WAKE UP and quit feeling guilty about the children!

118. On Aug 20, 2009, doyouthink said:

     Wow, I have a house with an ocean front view in Arizona. That is how I feel about this article. He is talking about someone he may of known over 10 yrs ago and is having a good time bashing. Just another story that is traveling all over the Internet. Half truths
     Jon is acting like an immature teenager.Where is the next skirt to chase. He can not keep a job. Talks about not wanting to do the show but wow he is enjoying the money right now. Does anyone seeing him working?? He just said in a recent interview how bored he is when he is at the house and feels like Blah but when he thinks of his place in NY he is like YEAH I can not wait to get back. This is a man that says he is all about the kids

     As for Kate having a Condo in Maryland. Have you not seen that was not true? At least she is not being photographed running around like a sex driven maniac.

119. On Sep 10, 2009, MMags1 said:

     Once again……

     I did not say that Jon was an innocent bystander. He has made plenty of mistakes. But at least HE has admited it in countless interviews.

     Kate does nothing but play the victim and never acknowledges her part in this. I find it extremely difficult to believe that some of you who claim to have watched the show from the beginning, can continue to portray Kate as some sort of Mother Theresa. Did you all fast forward through the scenes where Kate verbally castrated Jon?? (Which would be 3/4 of each episode)

     Did none of you see the way she treated the children that she claims to “live for”? Have you not noticed that everyone who was even remotely related to Kate has been summarily dismissed by her, never more to be seen or heard from again?

     Once more…. (please try not to skip over this part of my comment, yet again)Jon has his sins to atone for, BUT SO DOES KATE!! It’s become glaringly obvious that there are several people here who have their own “cheated on” agenda to perpetuate. Please try not to project your break-up experiences on people who don’t deserve it.

120. On Sep 12, 2009, Kassie said:

     LOL SHE REALLY THINKS JON IS INNOCENT. LMAO… PLEASE..

121. On Sep 17, 2009, elisa said:

     HI I was on Jon side. I see how Kate was to him and is not good. but the he open his mouth and trash talk about Kate the mother of his childrens. that’s he cross the line.
     if he wan to have another girl or do what ever he want’s is ok.
     even if Kate trash talk about him she at the end was the one looking bad.
     but he did it the wrong way.
     oh well good luck to J & K and the kids Divorce is a hard thing to any one.

122. On Sep 17, 2009, barbee said:

     Mags – you have done all my commenting for me and so well!!!!! Just wanted to say it is amazing how many people have such wrong or stupid info to comment on when the truth has been stated every other day. JON HAS ACTED LIKE A JERK (in the last several months and most importantly, AFTER he was told they were through). KATE HAS ACTED LIKE A B—H (in the last several…well, actually, FOREVER, and most importantly, BEFORE she told him they were through). And people are NOT JEALOUS OF HER, they are SICK OF HER. She has nothing of importance to give to us, so does NOT need to write (thanks, Beth) any more books, travel for book signings or inspirational talk, OR APPEAR ON TALK SHOWS (let alone STAR on her own). She should just SHUT UP and go home and ‘walk a mile in her shoes’ which she actually has never done.

123. On Sep 18, 2009, Just Me said:

     To all of you people who state that Kate is making money off the backs of her children, better check out Jon. Does Kate have a sports car, a Mercedes SUV, a Harley, a Manhattan apartment? Does she go to expensive restaurants, out nightclubbing every night? She may have been controlling, but when you have 9 children, you better be in control. On the episode where she screamed at him in Toys R Us, he was in the video section playing games, while she was contending with 8 children.

124. On Sep 24, 2009, MMags1 said:

     First, Thanks Pete. I appreciate it. Second, barbee, I’m so glad to see that someone else sees how insane it is to keep insisting that Kate is some kind of saint. I have said many times that Jon has showed some pretty poor judgement and that he has a lot to be held accountable for. What I just can’t ubderstand is why so many seem to think that he is the only one who does!

     When this whole thing began, I may have defended Jon more, but sadly he’s made that hard to do. The thing is though, no matter how much Jon may be “acting out” or “reliving his youth”, it doesn’t change the fact that Kate is who she is and has always been. Right now, she’s got a serious PR team choreographing her every move and every word. It’s all about the damage control. At least Jon has admitted to his poor judgement publicly.

     As I’ve said from the beginning, my main point is that Kate is no saint. She is not a helpless victim in this. And she is the reason that the Gosselin family is in the state that it’s in. It’s time for her to stand up and be the person she keeps saying she is, and admit her mistakes, instead of hiding behind the TLC PR machine and their lies.

125. On Sep 24, 2009, barbee said:

     people keep commenting on Jon’s spending, almost everything they mention (trip to France/Vegas, etc) are all paid for by others. Jon would have to go quite a ways to catch up to Kate with her *$$$$ (Starbucks), pedi/mani, shoes, hair(ies), purses, boop flaunting toppie- thingies, and her vocabulary(ish)base for her way of talk(ing), KATE, if you don’t like the way I say things, JUMP RIGHT IN (the lake that is). For someone with HER intelligence (read “lack thereof”) to constantly butt in to correct Jon’s comments in ‘ridiculously ridiculous’ (to quote her). What Jon and Kate are doing to each other is THEIR concern, and if they don’t mind what it is doing to their kids why should we? But why do they have to be in the spotlight when neither has ANY TALENTS so have noting to share with us. SHE says she was given ‘the gift of gab’ (how did she come up with that impression?) Gabbing is a two-way conversation and what she does is more of a ‘tell-a-thon’ with no response required OR WANTED. Downsize from the 1.3 million dollar mansion, Jon go back to IT (if anyone will have you), Kate go back to some form of nursing (is there one that doesn’t require people contact so her lack of people skills wouldn’t matter?) and support your kids like everyone else does BY ACTUALLY WORKING! There are many families with 5,6,or more kids, and 8 doesn’t make them SUPER SPECIAL (as they have so graciously shown us). p.s. anyone notice the lack of communication/grammar/spelling skills shown by all the REAL KATE LOVERS? (Like attracts like)

126. On Sep 24, 2009, jen said:

     First thanks Pete for censoring opinions. Will be my very last post, yeah, but I will never defend a cheating husband who abandons his family. Every marriage has it’s problems, no one is perfect, but that is no excuse for abandomnent. I am a Christian and believe in marriage and committment to please my Heavenly Father, even when things aren’t always to my expectations. He is in control always. Thanks for the opportunity to give my last post. Best to you.

127. On Sep 25, 2009, barbee said:

     sure Jon was a part of the vow renewal, BUT IT WAS KATE’S IDEA and she was a part of it too! And KATE was the decision maker on ending the marriage.
     Kate is organized (to a point) but if you look up organize and shrew in the dictionary there is NO similarity. You do NOT have to scream at children to get obedience. look at the kids faces when with Jon (smiles and happy) and when with Kate (sad or scared). Kate is so tunnel visioned in the first 4 seasons she had next to no contact with the boys, actually upon writing that, she actually had little actual contact with any of the kids other than telling jon what to do for them. Now her attention is almost solely on the boys or the twins, and almost none on the girl tups. In her “organization” everything has a spot, boy tups, girl tups or twins. She can only focus on one thing at a time and that is where organization fails – you can’t ‘organize kids’.

128. On Oct 5, 2009, Michele said:

     OMG this article was written in May and look how much has changed. I guess his friend didn’t know him as well as he thought he did… and by the sound of it he has some growing up to do as well. What are they raising in my state of PA – a bunch of never want to grow up and take responsibility men?!? Yuck – losers!!

129. On Oct 6, 2009, Kathi said:

     I can’t stand these 2 self serving media whores. We have watched Jon self destruct. I never realized what an immature man he really is. I used to watch this show until about a year ago. I stopped because I couldn’t stand Kates treatmenbt of not just Jon, but the kids also . We watched her taunt her son by saying she was going to throw away his favorite stuffed animal that he carried every where. We watched the kids scream because Kate would not let them color with magic markers for fear of getting their clothes dirty. She wouldn’t let them play in the dirt because, again, God forbid they get their clothes dirty. She took ice cream away from one of them because it dripped on their shirt. Remember the episode where Maddie said she “likes her daddy better”. When the kids were playing dress up in the basement and she started getting upset with Jon because she wanted the kids to get ready for bed. It waas only 6:00 and he refused and she was pissed at him. She has humiliated him in front of others at the crayon factory, toysRus and at the pumpkin patch and way too many other places. If she wasn’t in control of that house, watch out. If Jon had spoken to Kate and treated her the way she did him,People would have been calling him abusive and controlling. But not Kate. Now that they are separated, Kate is doing all kinds of activitiesa with these kids. Why didn’t she do these things before. She left it all up to Jon because it was easier for her. And what the hell is up with those little “love taps” she used to give him. Hitting , no matter what you call it is abuse. Those poor kids ,They have a money grubbing mother and a fame whore of a father. I have the title for a new show,”Jon and Kate take the 8 for a psychiatrist date”.

130. On Nov 7, 2009, Lynn said:

     So, how’s that soup taste now?
     Jon, your good buddy, is a sad wreck that we don’t want to watch but cannot seem to turn away from.
     Kate, well she just turns out to be exactly what we always thought she was and it starts with a “B”

131. On Nov 10, 2009, Kathy said:

     Oh PLEASE!!!!! Leave the woman alone! She has had enough already!

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